Recently, I found out that my partner wanted to try pegging. A dream come true for me! I was SO excited, but I had only ever had my own finger up there before. We did some research and thankfully found out about Tantus Inc's premium silicone toys.
After our beginner kit (which grew boring quickly) my wife picked out a Tantus Adam Super Soft to fuck my me with. It arrived and when I saw it my excitement mixed with nervousness! The Adam Super Soft is 1.7 inches in diameter - I needed to practice. That's when I added the Tantus Severin Medium to my ARSEnal.
The Severin Medium has manageable steps up in size for as a beginner. Remember to take your time with this toy. It took about a week of practice until I could easily take the second ridge, but that third one is pretty big! It took me a month or so to work up to it. I practiced about 1 time per day. One day, I relaxed enough and the third ridge popped in completely. It felt amazing!
After a few months or so with this toy, I can take the Adam Super Soft (pegged) without any pain at all. The odd thing is, I find myself coming back to this toy for play all the time now! I love the feeling of overcoming that third ridge - it's my favorite solo ass play toy. I still use it almost daily it as a pre-toy for pegging and I love to wear it as a plug. It's very comfortable and sits perfectly in my ass.
Don't be scared of the larger size toys, just practice and take your time! They won't seem big for long...
This is the first butt plug I purchased about ten years ago. It helped teach me how to gradually stretch in order to accept larger widths. Before my desires outgrew it, it was a regular plug for play, wear for teasing and wear during sex. Experiencing the stretch of a full two inches, as well as clenching around something that size during foreplay and orgasm led to years of more anal pleasure with Tantus and other toys!
If you want a plug that's going to stay put, this is a pretty darn good candidate! I always have to use a separate plug beforehand to warm up for this big guy, but it's definitely worth the wait. It was a lot to handle the first couple insertions, but it's getting progressively easier each time. I really appreciate the fact that it's girthy, but not super long. It's a fantastic prep toy for other anal activities or tons of fun all on its own!
I have both the Severin medium and Large Tulip. While the Tulip is a bit better at staying in place long-term, it is much less comfortable going in or coming out. The Severin is a bit more filling and the more rounded larger bulb is more comfortable going in. The more rounded design and wider neck means it is a bit less stable for long term wear. That being said, I've rarely worried it would come out and will comfortably wear it out of the house. The neck size is about 1.25 inches, and an hour or so of wearing the Severin is a nice warm-up/prep for taking 1.75-2" dildos for thrusting.
I've had this plug for quite some time now and I will admit that, at first, this plug was one hell of a challenge! (You should be reading that with a smile... It was that, OH SO good, type of a challenge!)
For the first 3-4 months that I had this bad ass toy, it was my go to plug for only those times that I was really in the mood for a really nice stretch! (You girth fans out there know what I mean!) Over time I used it more and more frequently and currently... It has become my daily extended wear plug! Seriously, I would be quite flustered to say the least, if by some freak chance I were to LOOSE IT! (It's pretty effin big... unless you leave it out and your dog grabs it and buries it in the back yard, you won't loose it!)
This thing's form is short and stout in a magnificent way. The third bump is significantly more noticeable during insertion and certainly doesn't let you forget that you are wearing it once it has found its home.
I love that Tantus didn't overdo it on the length aspect of this plug. It can be hard to find a nice girthy plug that doesn't insist on exploring the depths in addition to the walls of the cave...
(No pun intended)
Severin, daringly different and wonderfully fulfilling! You know your limits, if you can handle the diameter/circumference, buy it! You won't regret it!