This harness is soft, durable, easy to adjust and comfortable! It survived what I think was a lifetime supply of lube like a champ (looks literally brand new) and it fit me great. Upon seriously hard use (reference provided upon request!) it didn't shift a bit, which I loved. Fiddling with your gear is hard to make look sexy in the moment. It was easy to adjust, though for me the straps were a bit longer than I needed so I doubled them up. When I did that, the look was perfection for what I wanted! We played for quite a bit and it was comfortable the whole time. Where the straps went on me when adjusted correctly for my body made my hip thrusts make me just about as happy as they made him, and a good time was had by all. The straps aren't big and substantial, but they flex with you in a way that makes them comfortable. Like, when this warms to your body it feels like wearing nothing which I really like.
Me: curvy femme who prefers a low rise in the front and something that makes my butt look great in the back. I'm around 5'8" and 150 pounds
Fit: I prefer low in the front.
Adjustments: on the sides and in the back, both had room to go way smaller and way bigger without a hitch.
I purchased this harness after using one of those cheap nylon strap harnesses for a bit while my girlfriend and I experimented with pegging. The harness fits my girlfriend very well, and provides good stability for her favorite toy to use. She also says that it is comfortable to wear which is always a good thing.
I am however a little disappointed in the apparent durability of the harness. While the back pad, and the pad up front seem to be durable, the straps that connect them around the waist and the leg straps leave a lot to be desired. The straps themselves are not a solid piece of leather like you would use to make a belt. Instead they are an *extremely* thin piece of leather, that appears to be backed with some sort of nylon. This is folded over so that the leather meets in the middle of the inside of the strap and stitched. So when buckled up all that is holding any force is a maybe 1mm thick piece of leather, which doesn't even have a grommet installed. While nothing has broken so far, I can already see a fair amount of stretching in the holes that she buckles into after only a few uses, and am fearful that tearing is in the future. This is not a case of I got a dud, its a case of using extremely thin leather.
It's not that its a bad harness. It works great so far. I just expected something much more durable for $109. In the future I will go with something made out of more durable leather.
Oh man, where to begin with this one? This harness is made out of an absolutely gorgeous garment leather that has stayed soft and supple with a ton of use. Personally, I had to cut down the straps a little because I have smaller hips, but it fits wonderfully! I haven't had any issues with it slipping during play or with the leather stretching or tearing. Also, it makes my butt look fantastic, so I love to wear it just for that reason!
I love that it has the interchangeable option for the o-rings, so I never have to worry about getting a specifically sized dildo to use with it. I also haven't had any problems with lube staining the leather at all (both water based and silicone). I've had one problem with this harness, and that was when my partner was riding me and slamming the buckles into my hipbones. That position aside, this is a fantastically comfortable and sturdy harness