This was a little intimidating at first (female beginner), but it has quickly become my absolute favorite toy. I completely agree that this is amazing for hitting the g-spot. Something the description does not indicate, though, is that the Charmer is much wider up at the top than it is at the base. This isn't a negative at all - though that opinion may vary by person and preference - but I don't typically make use of the entire length. I also really appreciate the lack of "realism" in this toy. Overall, this has been a great addition to my toybox!
I'm a boy into playing in the backyard. I love this thing so much. It's my best friend each day and It's very comfortable and easy to use.
The charmer is sort of like the Compact's big brother...not quite 50% thicker at the widest point, and with a shaft that doesn't get as thin, its a good step-up from the slightly smaller harness-compatible toys. The silicone is firm enough to be stable but soft enough to give a little extra comfort. You'll know this one's inside as you feel each nub sliding in and out. Guys into strap-on play should think about this one too.