This has quickly become my favorite plug. IÃ¢â‚¬â„¢m a relative novice, and the width is just at my limit and it forces me to be extra relaxed to take it all in, which is exactly what I need. It helps to warm up with a smaller plug or toy first, but not necessary. ItÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s long enough to reach my p spot if I really sit on it. Rocking and bouncing with it in can bring an orgasm in the right state of mind, however itÃ¢â‚¬â„¢s still nice to just leave in for a while. Very happy with it!