Tantus They/Them Main
Tantus They/Them Azure Left
Tantus They/Them Silver Left
Tantus They/Them Bubble Gum Left
Tantus They/Them Copper Left
Tantus They/Them Malachite Left
Tantus They/Them Azure Front
Tantus They/Them Silver Front
Tantus They/Them Bubble Gum Right
Tantus They/Them Copper Front
Tantus They/Them Malachite Front
Tantus They/Them Bubble Gum Front
Tantus They/Them Silver Right
Tantus They/Them Azure Right
Tantus They/Them Copper Right
Tantus They/Them Malachite Right
Tantus They/Them Azure Back
Tantus They/Them Silver Back
Tantus They/Them Bubble Gum Back
Tantus They/Them Copper Back
Tantus They/Them Malachite Back
Tantus They/Them Azure Apple
Tantus They/Them Silver Apple
Tantus They/Them Bubble Gum Apple


Regular price $ 47.00

Introducing They/Them— a harness compatible, 100% Ultra-Premium Soft Silicone dildo that plays amazingly. This is a short, stout dildo that you can use a considerable amount of thrust for a good hard pounding without pounding your cervix or insides. It’s perfect for feeling the girth, and the soft silicone is great to contract the muscles against. Perfect for all the orifices. Just because someone looks like a certain gender, does not make that so. Asking someone’s pronouns gives them the respect of being able to own the person they are.

Safe For Your Body: Made from Tantus’ own unique formula of 100% Ultra-Premium Soft Silicone
Easy To Clean: Eco-Friendly, Hypoallergenic, Hygienic, Boilable, and Dishwasher Safe.

Diameter: 1.6" 
Insertable Length: 5
Length: 5.5" 


Customer Reviews

Based on 26 reviews
They them is perfect for me!

No details, but it’s pretty much perfect for what I wanted.

A Bedroom Staple

This is my second time purchasing this toy. That's how much I love it. I will say there is a significant difference in squish factor between the old and the new version. The older Silicone formulation(in the dark green color) is a bit firmer at the head, and the shaft has a little bit of squish and I probably bought it 3 years ago. The new one in bubblegum pink is much softer all around. I love the overall shape and texture of this toy so much. (Thank God it didn't change) The new is good without any warm up(for those who enjoy girth), where as the older design of this toy takes a bit of warming up to (even though they are the same diameter). I think it's the difference in silicone "squishiness." Both are the perfect length for heavy thrusting without bruising your cervix in the process. The new silicone formulation has less drag to it over prolonged use, whereas the old one needs to be re-lubed during a longer session.

This is the perfect go-to toy. If you could buy only one dildo from Tantus, I would say it has to be They/them.

Love it

Definitely one of my favorites.

Wife loved it!

My wife only enjoys length when it's between myself and her, but not with a toy. She likes girth then! Our blue they/them is a little less girthy than I am and a few inches shorter so she can get crazy with it and not damage her sensitive cervix. It combined with some oral drove her nuts! She loves the fact it's VERY mild if non-existent as far as texture and can be speedily thrust in and out without becoming raw, just stuffed and emptied over and over again until she wets the sheets!

Would Recommend

Very pleasant, nice squish. The length was good, most are too long.