This harness cut into me like something fierce!!!! This is the very first harness I've ever tried and having it cut into my bits specifically between my legs every time I moved (and no it wasn't too tight) was a *very* dysphoric and unpleasant experience. I am a bio female for reference.
Even if it did work it takes bizarre N type batteries that no one has. And the pocket for the bullet is located where neither person would be pleasured by it. Low quality materials round out this p.o.s. Very disappointing.
Fits around both my girlfriend and my waist, but too small around our thighs.
Great for a starting harnesses, the straps are extra long so you have to trim them so you don't just have lots of extra straps hanging around.
Over all a great buy!