Some people have been told outright that they are too big to suspend, with all of the fat phobic language you can imagine. Every case is different, but a lot of people are actively discouraged from participating in rope bondage as a part of their kinky, sex positive lifestyle. This simply needs to stop.
For the twenty years I’ve been making dildos, one message I’ve consistently heard was that condoms on a questionable sex toy can protect you from rashes, burning, etc. It is not true. Condoms on sex toys are the canary in the coal mine.
How do we conquer the art of dirty talk and take our bedroom game to the next level? The answer, naturally, involves talking.
What causes sexual attraction, the neurochemicals that light our sexual fires, and what exactly is going on in our brain during sex?
I do a lot of sex education sessions, especially for kinky groups of both men and women. When I first mention the term "ball stretcher", people unfamiliar with it cringe.