For Couples

We purchased the Bend Over Beginner Kit because we are beginners. We weren't sure the size we'd like. Turns out that the sizes in the kit were perfect for us right now. The harness is fairly comfortable and when positioned right, the vibrator is perfect to provide simulation to the wearer. The harness is easy to adjust when switching wearers. I couldn't rate it 5 stars because the fabric, while soft, is starting to tear. It may not be our forever toy but we will happily use it while it lasts.

We had purchased this product years ago and really enjoyed it. But it was lost in the move (hope whoever stole the box enjoyed it too). When it came time to purchase a new one, I bought this same one again. Easy to use, easy to clean.

As someone else here said, the smaller one is really small, but it comes in handy for the giving partner, since the straps leave the tender bits exposed and ready for play.

I started getting into pegging and was nervous about asking my girl. She was a little hesitant but she agreed. The kit comes with 2 but I think the smaller one is fairly pointless so you would probably find yourself using the medium fairly quickly.

I don't think I've ever purchased a sex toy kit that has gotten as much play-time as this one. My partner and I were both fascinated by pegging and were keen to give it a try. This kit gave us everything that we needed to dip our toes into the water. The two dildos are perfectly sized for beginner play. The fact that they are smooth and simple with no ridges or textures means that they're ideal for exploring anal play. They glide in smoothly and are easy to control and clean after play.

The harness is a fine beginner harness. Easy to wear and adjust to fit. After using this a few times, I got a bit annoyed with the excess length of straps that were left after adjusting the harness to fit, so I just trimmed them off. Now that I know I love wearing a harness, I'm ready to upgrade to something a bit fancier, but this one was the perfect introduction.

The vibrating bullet is a nice touch but it's probably the item that we've used the least. It sits snugly in the front of the harness but it was tricky to get it to line up with my clitoris and stay in place. The bullet is fun to play with on it's own though.

If you're interested in exploring pegging or anal play, this kit is a great place to start.

Harness is easy to adjust and get on and off. The bullet gives enough power for pleasure to the wearer. The dildos are good quality and perfect for a beginner experience. Machine washable strap is awesome. If you're just starting out, this is the place to go.

I love the firmness of the Echo Handle best. Highly recommend!! I particularly enjoy using it with the Liberator Tula toy mount.

An absolute favorite, no contest.

The ripples are both a pleasant touch for your body and a perfect little bit of grip if you team it up with another toy at once.

It's pretty firm, but that makes it much easier to handle. In fact, if you can fold your legs up, the Echo can easily be supported by your feet. The matte handle is a great touch, too.

Can't say enough good things about this piece!

I am a cis-woman and I use this solo and with my partner and I love it. The grip/handle situation is very helpful to my partner so his arm doesn't get tired.

Wow! This toy is amazing.

As a male who loves ass play, previously my go to anal toy was an 8” slim from Doc Johnson. Not anymore. While the ‘toy’ portion may be less than 8”, with the handle I have 11” of deep pleasure fun. Even when not going deep, it is just right grabbing the handle and pounding hard to hit the right spot.

It is a little bigger in the head and I was concerned I would still need to warm up with the Doc. Nope, plenty of lube and this slides right in. Beginners would need to warm up a little.

Over the years I have tried dozens of toys of different length, girth, material, etc. This one checks all the boxes.

If they wanted to improve the toy, keep everything as is including the handle but add a suction cup base.

Thanks for a great toy.

I'm a trans man (many years on hormones) using this vaginally. As far as the toy goes, I prefer things that are girthier with more curve, but that's a personal preference, nothing wrong with the Echo. I didn't feel the ridges too much. Handle was amazing! I do a lot of rough solo play so having a handle saved my shoulder so much pain. Perfect size to grip. Convenient in lots of positions. Wish this feature was available everywhere.

This toy is a delight. It contours well to my vulva and stays in place when worn in underwear. I get sutle vibrations through the "hump" and the tip flickers more vigorously on the clit. The satin finish is soft and velvety. The included bullet does the job but the low setting is worthless I am glad that one of jthe setting has patterns though. A plus is that after I wash it ant turn it on its end to dry it almost looks like a quail.

The strap, while adjustable, isn't secure at all, both in fit and in removal prevention. It's a problem that seems like it could be easily remedied, by custom straps, but Tantus doesn't seem to sell other options, meaning this product feels a bit incomplete.

The moment I saw this I knew it was so much more than a gag. The strap has made it onto many of cheaper gags that came with poor strapping and I use this gag as a customizable tail plug.

I bought this gag a number of years ago, and it has held up well. Its still in our main gag rotation.

It's basically a large pacifier that is soft enough to bite but firm enough to 'gag' on. Definitely gives the the wearer a 'safe' feeling.

this dildo is so good! better for fucking other people and youself than a normal dildo. Highly recommend to protect wrists and it feels SO good. if you like it rough it is so nice and so much less tiring to use. also the shape and texture of the toy feel really good

Bought this originally intending to use it with a wand vibrator as I wanted something that would be easy to hold while I held the wand with the other hand. What surprised me was how convenient the handle was to be able to simultaneously film a video on my phone with one hand for my LDR partner and not have my other hand holding it be in the way. The handle also feels great and I love the way it fits in my hand.

As a plus size sex toy user this is one of my favorites. The handle allows me to use the toy in ways that toys with only a base to hold on to do not. The grip is amazing and it allows me to use other toys along side it.

I hope one day there will be more toys like this.

We call it the pussy bat because we use it to beat up the pussy a bit before shoving it in. It is a good warm up for larger things. That said, it would be nice to have a larger girth on one of these;)

This has become one of my favorite toys. The handle really makes a difference for ease of use on what is already an incredible dildo.

Title says it all. I love this toy.

Tantus Strapless™ Strap On Slim

It's a high quality product with a nice shape and color, but unfortunately the size of my belly combined with the way it sits inside me makes it difficult to use as intended -- it doesn't stick out far enough, but kind of goes straight up. I took off one star for that but it's not really Tantus's fault, just something to be aware of if you're big. (I'm a 55" hip for reference.) Am definitely still shopping Tantus for a replacement harness-style dildo.

I got this on a whim if we're being totally honest, and wow. I was pleasantly surprised when it didn't fall out while using it. Would definitely recommend.

I’ve heard great things about this particular product! There have been many reviews online saying the vibrator is lacking. Does your “original bullet” fit in to replace it if I have to? Thanks!

Quickly became my favorite impact play toy. Highly recommend!

Overall: Easy to use easy to receive easy to clean & the perfect texture to boot. Would recommend 👌

1. This is not really technically small, but I’m sure it’s smaller than the other option. Doesn’t fit in my typical toy house. But renovations make a house a home ig

2. Debated over getting another impact toy with how rarely the ones I have get used. I also couldn’t imagine this one being that much different from what I have. I was wrong. Definitely worth trying if you’re thinking about it!

This strikes with a sharp sting that is noticeable but not overwhelming. And the handle while not at all challenging to insert is fantastic for teasing the G-spot or P-spot. we found this particularly fun for pussy spanking. this wouldn’t work for someone looking for an intense impact experience, at least not as a toy to finish with, but it is glorious for build up and playfulness.

The plunge paddle is easy to use, even for beginners! Can deliver the perfect amount of force with relatively low effort, really a great purchase for myself and my lady. Highly recommend!

I have put this to good use on my wife in the short time I've had it. The paddle has good weight and delivers the perfect thwack with a good thud with it. Practice and find the sweet spot for the right amount of swing power. The plunge handle is also fantastic. Perfect curve to hit the right spot. Definitely recommend adding to your line up!
Be sure to clean well as the hole in the handle will collect fluids, but some hot water a qtip and a cycle in the dishwasher or a boil and it's good to go.

The reason I love this paddle is somewhat unconventional maybe--I wanted an all-silicone (thus boilable/sanitizable) impact toy that was thick and thuddy, not too thin or stingy. Turns out after much looking around that doesn't seem to exist as far as I know, unless you use your imagination and render a kitchen silicone spatula or similar a "pervertible" (and with that you're never sure you can really do a long enough boil to sanitize as it's hard to confirm what inner cores are made of, which also makes me nervous about stability/breaking mid-impact). Had mostly given up on that quest then remembered we had this (among other Tantus impact toys, thank you for offering silicone items!) and one evening tentatively tried switching ends for spanking so the thicker baton-like insertible end was making the impact. Yes, this is somewhat clumsy in that using the thin flat paddle end as an impromptu handle is awkward looking and not the most comfortable or stable. But wow, finally got the results I'd been seeking! Nice and thuddy, and as a bonus (some would disagree I realize, ha) very quiet thus innocuous compared to using it the "right", stingy way.

It's currently my favorite reliable way to get that wonderful thuddiness in silicone. And of course it works the more prescribed ways (stingy zingy impact, using the edges to tease skin, "forced" blow jobs and other insertions) so you have a lot of options and can mix it up, all in a single session with just the one item.

It takes some practice to really get the SLAP out of this paddle, but when you do it is so satisfying. The silicone is stingy, but thick and heavy enough to be thuddy as well. Its short length and ergonomic handle make it perfect for a good OTK paddling when your hand gets tired which I really love, and this paddle is often part of my impact warm-up routine.

But y'all, that HANDLE though. Yes, it's comfortable to hold and wield, but besides that it is actually a pretty fantastic insertable. My darling fiancée has prostate orgasms fairly easily, but the handle of this toy brought her to climax quicker than I think anything ever has (inside of a minute for sure). I love that I can use it as a "cool down" in the middle of impact scenes to relax her and get her ready to push even further, and I don't even have to switch implements! My only gripe is that if using it as an insertable it can make the wrist tired since it's a bit awkward to grip the paddle part. But since this is primarily a paddle, it's a very small gripe and I am delighted that the handle works as an insertable at all, and effectively at that!

The hole is not a problem for me personally, and as Mike has explained it is a necessary evil of retail environments. I appreciate that they angled it in such a way that it does not interfere with that spot-stimulating hump we both love. I just use a cotton swab to get it cleaned out, easy.

LOVE👏THIS👏PADDLE👏

Best ever!
A sweet spanking and hits all the right spots!
Definitely recommended for assplay!

I *love* this paddle! I was looking for a self-spanking implement with more punch than the silicone slapper I had bought elsewhere, and this definitely hits the spot. I was surprised by how much weight it had when I first unpacked it, which is perfect—as with any silicone paddle it's super stingy, but because of the weight it also delivers a good deep smack on impact. A couple hard three-minute spankings leave the skin radiating with heat and bruises that last for days. (As other reviewers have mentioned, you also get a lot of bang for your buck—it doesn't take a huge amount of physical effort to deliver a strike that really stings.)

The only thing that would improve this paddle (as some longform reviews have mentioned) is extending a more rigid shaft about 1/3 of the way into the impact surface, as this would make it much easier to control. Otherwise the user has to hold the paddle with their hand extended partway down the rectangle to direct the slap, which means not being able to swing as hard.

A fantastic toy and with that minor improvement it would be genuinely perfect!

I wanted something that felt like getting spanked with the back of a plastic brush head while still looking sleek and mature and this is perfect. The only paddle in my collection at the moment and I am ok with that :)

Like a spank, only better. Lightweight but packs a nice slap. The flexibility gives a nice extra sting. Great for beginners and pros alike!

A little effort goes a long way with this paddle. Because of the thickness and weight, there's some nice thud to it, and the harder the strikes, the more intense the sting this paddle produces. But it doesn't take much strength or a heavy hand to produce a hearty sting, due to the nature of the material. That's where this paddle shines, in its ability to produce delightfully intense sensations with low effort. And with more effort, it stings a LOT. It can also be used lightly for less intense sensation, of course.

Bonus usage - using the side edge of the paddle creates an interesting alternative sensation, adding thud and cutting down on sting.

It's an added bonus for me (and may be essential to others) that this paddle can be easily cleaned, and even sanitized.

I find the handle comfortable, but people who want a more ergonomic handle without edges will likely prefer the rounded handle of the Plunge (which doubles as a dildo). The striking end of that paddle seems to be identical to that of the Thwack.

Overall, this is my favorite paddle, over wooden and leather ones, due to the ability for it to create high intensity for low effort.

Once you get the feel of the whip effect, even a petite woman like my wife, can deliver a serious spanking. When used "just for the fun of it", the fun feelings last a while. When used for serious discipline, the not so fun feelings last for hours. We have a collection of paddles, but my wife likes this one when she has me bend over. It's a tad awkward for OTK. I would rate it a 4.75 for that reason.

Rope - 30 Feet

The aftercare cream works well! It could stand to be a little thicker, but in the end (pun intended!) it really worked well for both my husband and I. Comforting results after even the roughest play!

Hurts less than a paddle and has a fun zing. If you really go for it I am sure you could up the pain but it’s pretty solid pleasure and makes a lovely noise against skin.

It’s been fun getting and giving that little contrast of a sting with pleasure to make both of us happy. Great crop and would recommend this to anyone.

Great thud with slight sting. The handle is 2 fists long. The handle is insertable with interesting texture!

Big fan

Big fan

Stingy & Thuddy all at the same time! This tawse packs quite the punch! I've used it on a partner & have had it used on me- ya know, for science ;) It's very easy to wield, quite a joy to hold. I love how the silicone moves so easy with just a flick of my wrist. I enjoyed dragging it across my bottom's skin, teasing him with a bit of tickle before slapping him. The light sensation of it across the skin is delicious! I also enjoyed bottoming to it- it really is quite a mean toy! Honestly, I couldn't take many hits from it myself as I'm not a fan of the stingy sensation- but don't we all enjoy pushing ourselves just a little further than we thought we could? ;)
The only down side is the handle is not as insert-able friendly as I thought it'd be.The texture of the handle is quite rough- a bit too rough for my own enjoyment. My bottom wouldn't even try it, as he doesn't enjoy rough textures for insertion.
Great toy for heavy impact play!

Very effective and thuddy. My bottom said it was a deep, long-lasting pain--even worse than the cane, which surprised me!

This tawse is indeed stingy and thuddy and easily leaves marks. Good for solo and couples spankings.

I researched this paddle quite a bit and the feedback was that it is hard to handle and takes practice. That was not the case for my wife, as she had instant success wielding the Snap Strap on my bare bottom. It has a definitive sting to it, and a satisfying sound. A little lighter than the Pelt or Wham Bam as far impact, makes up for it with sharp sting.
A new favorite paddle for my wife and I.

This strap is a wonderful alternative to a belt or a dragon tail and has an amazing sting. It can be one of the nicest or the meanest toys to use, and it leaves beautiful marks! It definitely took me a little practice with aim on a pillow before I felt comfortable using this on my partner, but it's certainly worth the time. It's a very versatile toy!

I own a Snap Strap, Wham Bam, Pelt, and an Acute dildo. Wow is how I think about all of them. The Snap and Wham take a little practice to get the stroke to land just right, but then - oh baby. The Pelt is so handy, I carry it concealed and use it as a surprise. The Acute gets high marks too, from a variety of partners.

Snap strap was a little more difficult to get a proper rhythm with. It's wobbly (I refuse to say "flimsy" because It's anything but. It's thinner and more floppy than most implements I've used, but once you get the technique and rhythm, man, does it sing. The sound it makes is ultra satisfying, and the mark it leaves is most pleasing to the eye. Not for the faint of heart though it has some SERIOUS sting.

This is a great paddle that works almost like a heavy belt--stingy, a touch flexible, made of super nice silky silicone. Used lightly, it delivers a pleasant sting, and with a bit more force behind it you can leave some very interesting marks.

I have never been a big "paddle" person, generally preferring the sting of bare hand on bare bottom. I don't like the "thwack" of a standard stiff paddle. This paddle has just the right blend of flexibility and stiffness. It'll take a couple of tries to get the hang of swinging it, but after that, I think you'll love it. And as a bonus, you can probably count your strikes by the attractive outline left behind (on the behind).

I have a good collection of impact toys now, and I can say without a doubt that the dragon tail is my favorite stingy instrument. I use the handle for a little thuddy sensation occasionally, but the stinginess of the thin and tapered end is deceptively intense. The pain doesn't register sometimes until the 5th or 6th hit. Then it burns like fire with each consecutive strike. The marks are also very distinctive, so you know where they are getting the good feels when you have a nice series of marks to guide you. I once thought I lost my Precious and was sad to see it was sold out. Luckily, it returned to me as if it has a will of its own. I may have to buy a backup or two... just in case.

I love this thing! Great quality product overall and AMAZING customer service from Tantus. I’m a bratty sub and wanted to see how this would work for funishments / punishments. Definitely didn’t disappoint. The slap sound is addictive and the tip adds a mean little sting. I haven’t tried inserting it (yet) but I can tell I’m going to get a lot of fun and discipline from my dragon tail.

Thinking about naming mine The Salty Papercut or something. Works so efficiently that it's hard not to use it too, well, hard (at least as a beginner). I showed it to some friends of mine who are pretty hardcore and they were all impressed by how devilish this little snapper is. Floppier than it looks, but not too floppy. The silicone is firm but flexible and not too thin. The handle end is even more potentially vicious as an impact device (but felt good in my butt). Love the way it fits in my hand (should be noted I have fairly small hands, even for a lady).

Looking forward to trying the Pelt next, which will likely be more my husband's speed as well. We're used to leather floggers (which are basically ticklers, especially compared to silicone) so filling out our collection with some higher-level stuff is very exciting!


TL;DR: Last reviewer was dead on... this thing has no "gentle" mode ;)

This toy is not for beginners. Well, at least it wasn't for me since I'm too new at impact play. It has two main ends for impact play–the tail part stings a lot. Even using the softest of hits, it packs a really good sting. I personally haven't tried out the insertable end, but I will as I explore impact play just a bit more.

It feels so much like a hand spanking! I alternate between this and my hand for long sessions.

I love the Pelt! The smooth surface really “leaves its mark!” Light enough to use for the duration of any scene length yet packs a real slap!

This paddle is excellent for hard sting! It's easy to wield and clean and has held up well with use. Definitely one of the more severe impact toys in my kit, but also one of my favorites!

When I decided to give spanking a try, I wanted this paddle. I love tantus products, so I knew I'd like the silicon. I was right. The silicon satiny smooth and it's got a great sting.

I bought this in a brick and mortar store. While I went in specifically planning to get this toy, I did look at the other paddles on display. Pelt was simply the best of the bunch. It's easy to use and easy to clean. Deffinately worth the money because of how fantastic tantus silicon is.

I bought the entire line of impact toys immediately after they were released. They all have their virtues, especially being so easy to disinfect and sterilize in the dishwasher. In fact, they are the ONLY toys that I will take to spanko play parties.
However, I question whether the very simple shapes justify the retail price which is even higher now than when they premiered.
The Pelt and the Plunge are my favorites with the Plunge taking the lead since it can also be used as an insertable. But they both have a nice action and sting to them and I highly recommend them.